Greetings! I have been quiet for a while and felt it was time to share an update. This is totally a personal life update, so don’t expect any cool SQL Server knowledge.
I spent some time grieving, and re-evaluating what I really want from life. I traveled and found love in an unexpected place and I got married!
I met Peter while performing Mystery Theater Shows at Castle of Chaos in 2015. I was attending a show as a guest and asked questions about how to have a guest character for the show, to have more fun interacting with the cast, and the director misunderstood my question and thought I wanted to be in the show and said I should try out for the next show. Ryan and I joined the cast beginning our connection with Castle of Chaos. The cast of Mystery Theatre welcomed us and we all became friends. There were many jokes about the “No Relation” when announcing the cast with our last names at the end of shows because Peter, Ryan and I all had the last name Allred.

Peter and I performed as Drake and Mallory in “A Wedding to Die For” where we would get married and then Peter would die during the first dance. The audience would then spend the next hour uncovering the murderer. We calculated that we have already been theatrically married about 13 times.
After the heartbreaking loss of Ryan, some members of the cast group invited me to join a Disneyland trip. While on that trip, Peter and I started talking and never stopped.
We spent the next 7 months asking each other questions to get to know one another better. We met each others families and learned we have a lot in common; not the least of which our love of Disney, our passion for live theater, and many more. We spend a lot of time filled with joy in each others company.
In May, we went to Disneyland again. We had just finished riding “The Pirates of the Caribbean” as our last ride of the night. It was after midnight and the park was starting to clear out. Peter suggested we go back and look at the castle. As we looked at the castle, he directed us over to the Fantasy Faire area. We were looking at the statue of Rapunzel in her tower and her hair lit up. We loved how magical it felt and noticed an instrumental version of “See the Light” from Rapunzel had begun playing over the Disney speakers. We started dancing and Peter asked, “Would you do me the honor of being my princess?”.
In my excitement, I missed that he was holding the ring and just started saying “Yes” over and over. Peter told me I needed to put on the ring first and I was so excited and bouncing that it took me a minute to get it on and say “Yes” again.

We got married October 1st in an absolutely Royal Wedding. and went on the most incredible honeymoon. It has been humbling to see so many people show up to celebrate and love us.





This has been a big shift in life for me and I am loving it. I know there are more shifts on the horizon and am really excited for what the future holds.
Thanks for reading and have a magical day!
The song for this post is Stargazing by Myles Smith.









